More About “Queen of Domination: My Secret Life”

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Queen of Domination: My Secret Life is a rare book. It is rare because an American woman wrote about her personal sex life in explicit detail. Rarely in history, has an American woman written about her sex life and published a book about it for the world to read. Another dynamic that makes this book rare is because it exposes the depth, intensity, diversity and versatility of female sexual behavior. I, Dr. Charlayne Grenci reveal the extent of my sexual experiences from curiosity, passion and desire through exploration and experimentation which are either shocking, entertaining, educational or erotic. I also divulged my innermost feelings, some of which I had never uttered to a confidant. I believe the seriousness of my confessions in this book are so powerful and compelling that they bring a variety of messages and lessons to the reader. Most definitely theoretically non-conventional. Queen of Domination: My Secret Life is a good read for many reasons. This book embraces a philosophy of the human condition that exists on the surface of our psyche and that which has deeply penetrated below. This book is laced with the common bond we all share. Yes, we all have a common bond,… Continue reading

P R E S S – R E L E A S E, Dr. Charlayne Grenci, AKA Mistress Carla Will Dominate the Literary World – August 25!

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With QUEEN OF DOMINATION: MY SECRET LIFE, her riveting, erotic, tell-all memoir! Historically, Dr. Grenci is one of the rare women who chose to share her curiosity, fascination and appetite for promiscuous sexual exploration and prohibited sex with men and women. Was she consumed by dark deeds and dark temptations that were filling her compulsions? Or was her drive to personally explore sex and do sex research to satisfy an obsession? Or was she hell-bent on seeking more and more thrilling sensations? Full of steamy sex scenes that titillate as well as instruct  “how to do it”! Leave your inhibitions behind and step into an extraordinary world of sexual and kinky pleasures! Alternative sexual expressions  and bold, torrid escapades stimulate Grenci’s fascinating and compelling true  life story that will keep you questioning, entertained and…. begging for more! Read “Queen of Domination: My Secret Life.” Release Date -August 25! Continue reading

My Introduction to the Spiritual World

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My non-conformist years of rebellion were starting to take a toll on me.  I was still refined at heart but remarkably immature.  I was about to enter a world which would conflict with everything I had been taught as a child and all the values which were inbred in me. Had I also been programmed for alternative lifestyles?  Up through my twenties I was still quite naive in some respects, and I surely wasn’t aware there was an underground subculture which would defy all the principles of my childhood up-bringing, as well as challenge my character and community status. By all social norms, this new lifestyle, this new profession would mock that old-fashioned ideology and all the disciplines and protocol that went with it. It must have been in the cards? Soon, I would become known as a Professional Dominatrix. I would be asked if I was a witch or a fortune teller. I would also been referred to as “the Larry Flint” of the BDSM community. What most people didn’t know is that around the time of this complex transition in 1979, I experienced a spiritual awakening which was quite confusing. I really didn’t know what was happening at… Continue reading

Dungeon VS. Clinic: The Origin of My Non-Conventional Research Project

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It was amazing in those early days, when people met me and heard what I did for a living; they became anxiously interested in seeking my advice about their personal sex lives. This happened on a regular basis in and out of the dungeon. Everywhere I went and most everyone I met became curious and started inquiring, probing…. I felt I was “on stage” wherever I was, but I didn’t have a problem sharing my knowledge, nor did the subject of “sex” embarrass me. It seemed everybody had questions or issues about their relationship or sex life. Most mainstream people were not familiar with the subculture I was involved with, but they knew it dealt with sexuality and that is what caught their interest. Discussions with strangers and acquaintances quickly became as frequent and popular as with my personal friends and fetish enthusiasts. Whenever I divulged my taboo occupation to family doctors, I was asked to stay and chat with them after my appointment. Predictably, they all wanted to be enlightened on the subject of domination and submission and what went on in the dungeon. Who were my clients and what did they ask for? I gladly obliged, because I… Continue reading

Is it Rare for a Woman to Publish a Book…. About Her Sex Life?

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Is it Rare for a Woman to Publish a Book…. About Her Sex Life? Take a Taste of This!   QUEEN OF DOMINATION, MY SECRET LIFE is a mind-bender. Hell yes, I’m going to lay it on the line, it’s a mind-fuck beyond the scope of reasoning to a degree. That’s what you will think some times, ’cause it’s deep… extra deep.  Maybe unfathomable in parts.  I’ll take you from prim and proper ballet shoes and violin lessons to hard-core leather boots, whips and chains and everything in between! This book is jam packed full of life, karma and choices. Some were beyond my control. Most were not. I’m talking about the real deal. Something fascinating was brought to my attention two weeks ago when my dearest colleague took me by surprise by asking a question I wasn’t prepared for. “Carla, what makes your book unique?” It sounded like an easy question. “Well, um, because I wrote it.” I answered not knowing what he expected. “Carla, stop and think about it, what makes your book unique?” I hesitated to respond this time, thinking I didn’t have the answer he was looking for. “Um… ahhh, not quite sure now, now that… Continue reading

Peek Inside the Mind of Mistress Carla, ‘Queen of Domination’

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Do You Know a Highly Creative Personality? Is it a Blessing or a Curse?   Because of a paradox personality, highly creative people appear as numerous people within one individual possessing a wide range of extreme and intense energies. I think of it as a yin-yang personality. These people possess the deepest of insights. Needing a lot of sleep and solitude for their creative production, but needing equally as much socializing with other people. That doesn’t sound too out of the ordinary, but with the highly creative folks, it gets much more complicated than that. It is common to question how a person’s traits can be so opposite at the same time, such as a combination of intelligence and naivety. What about tremendous self-confidence and insecurity? One trait appears to conflict with the other. I will eagerly challenge the unknown and at the same time take pride in being a problem-solver. I have been called a visionary, labeled a leader, a trendsetter and a trail blazer, because I take the challenges, the heat and the risks of being rejected or accepted for experimenting and exploring new territory and new concepts. I have a passion to play hard, work hard and… Continue reading

A SNEEK PREVIEW OF MY BOOK, ‘QUEEN OF DOMINATION’

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Epilogue Flashback to 1981, The Story Unfolds It is July 2012. I am at home sitting in my quaint office-library and surrounded by books. I take a deep breath. My pulse starts racing, and I wonder where did all the time go? What happened to the last thirty plus years of my life? Why did it speed by so quickly? Is this where I’m supposed to be in my life now, or should I be engaged in something else before it’s too late? I glance to the left side of my desk and notice the famous Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy staring at me, stabbing at my gut. I feel a nauseating rush and all at once I am irritated and envious. Those were my books to write. After all, I have lived that life. My office hugs me in a sphere of tall, fully stuffed bookcases of non-fiction literature containing some of the most intense and extreme educational texts. How- to sex manuals, books on psychology, abnormal psychology, human sexuality, sexology, personality disorders, perversions, fetishes, other paraphilias, relationship self-help manuals, books on alternative lifestyles, gender-bending, criminal behavior, and even a few tomes about serial killers and the mafia. To… Continue reading

Our ‘Earth Angels’

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Part I – Cruelty of Aging     Aging… after 50 or 60, after 70 or 80 years old? It is not a situation the majority wishes to recognize, and it is not a pleasant journey for others which is why discussions are often avoided.  I am going to write this from the heart. I have had the experience of feeling the intensity of pain, anguish and confusion from elderly relatives, clients, patients and friends. I have seen the look in their eyes, the expressions on their face, the tone of voice, yet at the same time their words were saying something else. Their words were not exposing this silent anguish. There words would not dare speak of the submerged pain. Why, I said to myself and then pondered the answer? Why would someone rather suffer in silence than share these feelings, especially with someone close… someone who cares. Wouldn’t it relieve some of the anguish? Why is suffering in silence so prevalent.  It’s a cruel reality. The answer is as complex as it is heart-wrenching. Nobody in their right mind wants to be thought of as weak or helpless, insecure or scared? What about crazy? Does anyone want a… Continue reading

Dominatrix on Trial

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Pair Guilty Of Running House Of Ill Repute February 12, 1985 | By Diane M. Goldie, Staff Writer Charlayne Grenci, professionally known as “Mistress Carla, the Queen of Domination,“ and her associate, Jean Morgan, pleaded guilty Monday to charges they ran a house of ill repute. Morgan, 60, who scheduled Grenci`s $250-an-hour torture sessions at 160 NE 19th St., Pompano Beach, was sentenced to 18 months` probation. Broward Circuit Judge Leroy Moe ordered a background check on Grenci and set her sentencing for March 28. Under terms of the plea agreement, Moe can send Grenci to the county jail for a maximum of 90 days, place her on five years` probation and judge her guilty, which will leave her with a permanent criminal record. Grenci, 36, was advised by her attorney, Bruce Randall, not to comment on the case. “This was just a plea of convenience,“ Randall said. “They`re admitting to the charges and that they did it, but it`s just for their own convenience. The first trial was a real traumatic experience for them and they don`t want to go through that again.“ But Assistant State Attorney Ronald D`Anna said he “was pleased that they accepted the plea. I… Continue reading