I’m Guilty As Charged – I’ve Been a Social Activist for Over 30 Years

GE DIGITAL CAMERAIf you are interested in who I am, and you would like to get to know me, you should read about the depth and diversity of my experiences in my true life story… with its shocking events and my huge life lessons! It’s all in my book, “Queen of Domination: My Secret Life“!

My next Blog is not going to be an excerpt from my book, I’m going to write about a different segment of my life. Many people don’t know I’m considered a social activist. It all started in 1983, but it continued for over 20 years.
PART I

After surviving the trauma and political combat of my five year legal battle from 1983-1988, I called the Witch-Hunt Battle which was fraught with corruption and hypocrisy by the State of Florida, I defied the system and challenged it once again. I couldn’t have done it any other way. I would do it all over again. The Judge had threatened me in 1985 in front of a packed courtroom saying, he better not see me in his courtroom again for practicing domination, or I would be facing … Continue reading

Our Forgotten ‘Earth Angels’ Part II – Take Action Now – Become a Humanitarian in 2015! Because This Can Happen To Any of Us

Our Forgotten Earth angelsI’m going to write about the fear and despair of many elderly citizens. This goes across all nationalities, religions, cultures and societies. I’m talking about all people. I’m referring to the isolation. The loneliness. The emptiness.  Yes… it is depressing for us who still have a healthy, productive life, which is why most people turn a blind eye and run the other way, even turn their backs on folks in their own family or circle of friends. It’s a crime and a sin, but it’s here and there and everywhere, and we must deal with it. Not wanting to leave their home, though alone day and night. Fearing isolation from family because of illness and not being able to keep up and function normally. Or the haunting fear of being taken away from familiar surroundings and put in a strange place, or with a relative that does the favor out of protest?

An elderly person’s home is their sanctuary, their comfort zone and their only security. It is one of the only things they have left to count on and cling to. I believe that … Continue reading

S&M VS TORTURE IN THE BDSM COMMUNITY

sm-vs-torture-in-the-bdsm-communitySome people, especially law enforcement, have trouble making a distinction, or refuse to recognize the difference between a killer’s torture chamber and a dominant’s playroom, which is sometimes called a dungeon.  A killer’s torture chamber is exactly that, but a dominant’s playroom is for consensual BDSM and role-play, between two or more participants.

The truth of the matter is there are predators who stalk for prey in the BDSM community. They recognize vulnerable, needy submissives and they know how to attract them. There are also legitimate BDSM sadists in the leather and BDSM communities. This group are not referred to as sexual sadists, because sexual sadism is listed as a psychiatric disorder associated with illegal activities such as rape, torture and murder.

BDSM sadists are looking for willing participants who are counterparts, or masochists, for safe, sane and consensual play. The line that separates consensual BDSM play from cruel or violent BDSM play is a lack of respect for the submissive’s limitations. In my opinion, BDSM play between individuals is no longer considered BDSM, but is considered violence or abuse if the play is … Continue reading

More About “Queen of Domination: My Secret Life”

CP Promo Sword CutQueen of Domination: My Secret Life is a rare book. It is rare because an American woman wrote about her personal sex life in explicit detail. Rarely in history, has an American woman written about her sex life and published a book about it for the world to read. Another dynamic that makes this book rare is because it exposes the depth, intensity, diversity and versatility of female sexual behavior.

I, Dr. Charlayne Grenci reveal the extent of my sexual experiences from curiosity, passion and desire through exploration and experimentation which are either shocking, entertaining, educational or erotic. I also divulged my innermost feelings, some of which I had never uttered to a confidant. I believe the seriousness of my confessions in this book are so powerful and compelling that they bring a variety of messages and lessons to the reader. Most definitely theoretically non-conventional.

Queen of Domination: My Secret Life is a good read for many reasons. This book embraces a philosophy of the human condition that exists on the surface of our psyche and that which has deeply … Continue reading

P R E S S – R E L E A S E, Dr. Charlayne Grenci, AKA Mistress Carla Will Dominate the Literary World – August 25!

Ready for Radio ShowWith QUEEN OF DOMINATION: MY SECRET LIFE, her riveting, erotic, tell-all memoir! Historically, Dr. Grenci is one of the rare women who chose to share her curiosity, fascination and appetite for promiscuous sexual exploration and prohibited sex with men and women. Was she consumed by dark deeds and dark temptations that were filling her compulsions? Or was her drive to personally explore sex and do sex research to
satisfy an obsession? Or was she hell-bent on seeking more and more thrilling sensations?

Full of steamy sex scenes that titillate as well as instruct  “how to do it”! Leave your inhibitions behind and step into an extraordinary world of sexual and kinky pleasures! Alternative sexual expressions  and bold, torrid escapades stimulate Grenci’s fascinating and compelling true  life story that will keep you questioning, entertained and…. begging for more! Read Queen of Domination: My Secret Life.” Release Date -August 25!

My Introduction to the Spiritual World

SERIOUS DOMINATION TRAINING SESSION AT COMMAND PERFORMANCE - 1992My non-conformist years of rebellion were starting to take a toll on me.  I was still refined at heart but remarkably immature.  I was about to enter a world which would conflict with everything I had been taught as a child and all the values which were inbred in me. Had I also been programmed for alternative lifestyles?  Up through my twenties I was still quite naive in some respects, and I surely wasn’t aware there was an underground subculture which would defy all the principles of my childhood up-bringing, as well as challenge my character and community status. By all social norms, this new lifestyle, this new profession would mock that old-fashioned ideology and all the disciplines and protocol that went with it.

It must have been in the cards? Soon, I would become known as a Professional Dominatrix. I would be asked if I was a witch or a fortune teller. I would also been referred to as “the Larry Flint” of the BDSM community. What most people didn’t know is that around the … Continue reading

Dungeon VS. Clinic: The Origin of My Non-Conventional Research Project

GE DIGITAL CAMERAIt was amazing in those early days, when people met me and heard what I did for a living; they became anxiously interested in seeking my advice about their personal sex lives. This happened on a regular basis in and out of the dungeon.

Everywhere I went and most everyone I met became curious and started inquiring, probing…. I felt I was “on stage” wherever I was, but I didn’t have a problem sharing my knowledge, nor did the subject of “sex” embarrass me. It seemed everybody had questions or issues about their relationship or sex life. Most mainstream people were not familiar with the subculture I was involved with, but they knew it dealt with sexuality and that is what caught their interest.

Discussions with strangers and acquaintances quickly became as frequent and popular as with my personal friends and fetish enthusiasts.

Whenever I divulged my taboo occupation to family doctors, I was asked to stay and chat with them after my appointment. Predictably, they all wanted to be enlightened on the subject of domination and submission and what went on … Continue reading

Is it Rare for a Woman to Publish a Book…. About Her Sex Life?

Is it Rare for a Woman to Publish a Book…. About Her Sex Life?
Take a Taste of This!

 

Rare for a Woman to Publish a BookQUEEN OF DOMINATION, MY SECRET LIFE is a mind-bender. Hell yes, I’m going to lay it on the line, it’s a mind-fuck beyond the scope of reasoning to a degree. That’s what you will think some times, ’cause it’s deep… extra deep.  Maybe unfathomable in parts.  I’ll take you from prim and proper ballet shoes and violin lessons to hard-core leather boots, whips and chains and everything in between!

This book is jam packed full of life, karma and choices. Some were beyond my control. Most were not. I’m talking about the real deal.

Something fascinating was brought to my attention two weeks ago when my dearest colleague took me by surprise by asking a question I wasn’t prepared for.

“Carla, what makes your book unique?” It sounded like an easy question.

“Well, um, because I wrote it.” I answered not knowing what he expected.

“Carla, stop and think about it, what makes your book unique?” I hesitated to respond this time, thinking I … Continue reading

Peek Inside the Mind of Mistress Carla, ‘Queen of Domination’

Do You Know a Highly Creative Personality?
Is it a Blessing or a Curse?

 

Because of a paradox personality, highly creative people appear as numerous people within one individual possessing a wide range of extreme and intense energies. I think of it as a yin-yang personality. These people possess the deepest of insights. Needing a lot of sleep and solitude for their creative production, but needing equally as much socializing with other people. That doesn’t sound too out of the ordinary, but with the highly creative folks, it gets much more complicated than that. It is common to question how a person’s traits can be so opposite at the same time, such as a combination of intelligence and naivety.

What about tremendous self-confidence and insecurity? One trait appears to conflict with the other. I will eagerly challenge the unknown and at the same time take pride in being a problem-solver.

I have been called a visionary, labeled a leader, a trendsetter and a trail blazer, because I take the challenges, the heat and the risks of being rejected or accepted for experimenting and exploring new territory and new concepts. I have a passion to play hard, … Continue reading